Aging is a prevalent fear these days. It seems like people think once they hit retirement, they’ll be bound to their homes, unable to go outside and live life. But I say 60 is the new 40! Getting older hasn’t held me back from being adventurous, open-minded, and fun-loving—and it shouldn’t hold you back either! Over 60 travel has become my passion, and I’m glad to offer advice for my fellow retirees who hope to get out and see what the world has to offer. If you’re a mature traveler, remember these three Ms for taking on the world:
1. Have the Right MINDSET
They say you’re only as young as you feel, and I’d say that’s partly true. Mindset plays a huge role in how much you’ll feel your age. When you embark on your travels, be sure to get the right mindset squared away as soon as possible. Travel is full of unavoidable and unexpected hassles—the only thing you can do is have a positive attitude.
Don’t waste your energy being annoyed with others, especially when taking international flights. Everyone is tired, TSA agents can be a little over-zealous, and other passengers often come off as rude. Instead of worrying about everyone else’s behavior, focus on how much fun you’re about to have on your international vacation!
2. Always Enjoy the MOMENT
I like to stop and take photos as much as the next gal (check out my Instagram for more!), but it’s crucial to live in the moment as much as possible. I try to take frequent gratitude pauses during my trip—always remember that you’re lucky to be there and should appreciate your ability to have such amazing experiences. Think about how you feel when you get your first glimpse of Paris’ Eiffel Tour or the bright neighborhoods of Colombia. Stay focused on why you’re taking this trip and forget the negative. Reprogram your thinking to almost Pollyanna levels of positivity!
3. Be Smart With Your MONEY
Boomer travelers tend to be disciplined and somewhat frugal with their money. While it’s a good idea to be smart about what you spend, I encourage you to plan your trip and spending such that you won’t have to be downright miserly and miserable. A solo trip is a chance to treat yourself, so be sure to plan accordingly. Set aside extra funds for various excursions, local restaurants, and hefty tips for service workers. You may never get the chance to come back—this isn’t the time to be a penny pincher! When you’ve already spent the money on airfare and hotels, you might as well use part of your savings to make some great memories. You can be frugal once you return home!
What Other M’s Would You Add to the List?
So, as you even plan your next mother daughter vacation, don’t forget about my three Ms of solo, over-60 travel! There are certainly many more factors to think about when choosing a solo travel destination, but if you keep your mindset in check, live in the moment, and manage your money, you’re bound to have a great time.